Brett Lawrie Hits An Umpire

(Sorry for the bad quality video but YouTube restricts copyrighted material)

There’s a good reason why Solomon tells us in Proverbs to watch you anger cause it could come back to bite you. Here we see Brett Lawrie get upset at a strike called high and rightfully so. I believe the reason the umpire called that high strike is because of Brett’s actions on the previous called strike that was juuuuuusst a bit outside. I should know. I’ve done it before while umpiring. If a batter doesn’t like a call  I made, the next pitch will prove a point; that what I say goes.

Unfortunately when we get upset, if we act out of stupidity, we’re going to reap the consequences. Brett, I’m very sure didn’t mean to hit the ump with his helmet and admitted so after the game in a press conference.

“That was not my intention at all,” Lawrie said of striking Miller with his helmet. “I’ve never, ever, done anything to go at an umpire before in my life, and I didn’t mean to tonight. I apologize for that. It just kind of took an unlucky bounce and I think it got him, so my apologies for that.”

But unfortunately for Brett, his helmet took an unfortunate bounce right into the umpire’s leg. Not only with there be a fine but a lengthy suspension as well.

Think before you act. This video shows what not doing so looks like.

Here’s a better video from MLB.

  • Anger in Proverbs

Proverbs 14:17 – A quick tempered man acts foolishly

Proverbs 14:29 – He who is quick tempered exalts folly

Proverbs 29:22 – An angry man stirs up strife, and a hot tempered man abounds in transgression

the Links

MARRIAGE/FAMILY

  • How To Miss A Childhood – Great post on MAKING (not taking) time for your kids. I’m learning this one myself.
  • A Titanic Metaphor For Marriage - I’m a big fan of a tragedy. Yup, that’s basically what I’m saying when I say I love the story of the Titanic. This is a great post on 8 ways to making sure your marriage doesn’t sink.
WORSHIP
  • 7 Pet Peeves About Worship Music In Church – From the writer – “I would like to share with you the seven things I most wish I could say to both worship leaders and to those in the pews who complain about music (and this isn’t directed at any particular ones from my church, or from conferences I’ve spoken at :) . These are just general, universal observations! ):”
  • Silence - I’m a firm believer that silence is a huge part of worship. Sunday mornings it’s so difficult to implement it. I know I’d like to do more of this.
  • How Much Worship Is Enough - Is worship just the thirty minutes we spend singing at church? When does worship start? When does worship stop? Grat short post on how long our worship should last.

Weapon(s) of Our Warfare

I get to live in an Army town and minister to soldiers. It’s a whole different lifestyle from what I’m used to. I’m from small-town U.S.A. The only experience of army life for me is when my brothers would come home on leave and wash all their stinky clothes and talk all G.I. Joe stuff. Which is to say, not much.

As a worship leader, I’ve never been much on the fighting side of God and have been more on the loving side of God (to my chagrin) because God is a mighty warrior (Zephaniah 3:17). Thanks to my fighting friends, I have learned so much more with an appreciation that God is not just a lamb but a roaring lion as well.

This month we are going through a series at church called Worship Is What Worship Does. This past Sunday, Laurel Grider from Bethel Clarksville came by and led us in worship and the word. She spoke on the weapons of our warfare. We fight not against the things of the flesh but the things of the spirit (Ephesians 6:12).

Th biggest thing I took away from her talk was something so simple yet so profound. It’s God that fights for us and when we take our eyes off Jesus, then we will fail to win the battle because when our eyes are not on him, they’re on the enemy and only He can win the battle. Like Peter began to sink, we begin to lose until we focus on Jesus, the one who champions our battles.

It’s so simple. Yet so hard to do during the heat of the battle. Don’t look at the enemy. Look toward God. When we look at the enemy we look at the problem and see how big it is. When we look at God, we see how much MORE bigger he is than our problem, our fights.

I encourage you when it feels like your fighting a battle that seems to hard to win, check your focus and see what you’re looking at. Are focusing on the enemy or God? When we focus on God, we worship and through our worship, God wins!

Pair app

Have you ever texted the wrong person and then a follow up text saying, “Whoops, that text wasn’t meant for you.” Yeah me neither, but playing around the other day, I found an app that might could do away from that happening but only with one person of your choosing. Because its intention is for spouses or partners to communicate in a private way without the possibility of texting the wrong person.

It’s called the Pair app.

With the Pair app, you can text with each other as well as send pictures, videos, doodles, to do lists and probably the most appealing use of the app, the thumbkiss. The thumbkiss is where both of you put your thumb to the phone screen and when they line up together, the screen turns red and the phone vibrates.

The concept is pretty cool. I was away last week from my wife and son and and it felt like forever. When I came across this app, I thought I would give it a try. We both went through the process of signing into the app and we tried the thumbkiss. I thought it was simple but somewhat neat. My wife was still trying to figure out what the point was. I’m not sure she got it.

It’s not all it’s cracked up to be unfortunately for me either. The best part about it is the privateness of it. There’s no chance of sending someone else a “love” text intended for my wife. with the phones these days you can send a pic and video through text so it would seem the ONLY good thing about the app is it’s privateness.

The thumbkiss would seem to be a cool thing but I tried to send my wife a thumbkiss but it doesn’t give her a notification that this is being attempted.

FAIL!

There should be a notification when someone attempts to give someone a thumbkiss. But really if this is the ONLY reason to download the app as well as the privateness, then to me it’s not really worth the time. I’d say keep on texting with your built in phone text app. and make darn sure it’s going to the recipient it’s intended for.

Happy texting!

5.13.12 Worship Rewind

  • Our God – Chris Tomlin
  • Mighty To Save – Hillsong
  • Lead Me To The Cross – Chris and Conrad
  • It Is Well With My Soul – Hymn

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY

We’ve been going through our worship series this month, Worship Is What Worship Does. Today we had a guest speaker and worship leader from Bethel Clarksville, Laurel Grider.  She did an amazing job leading us in worship as well as speaking on “Worship as Warfare”.

In case your curious, we don’t normally plan messages geared around holidays. We recognize them but keep to a schedule planned semi-annually by the spiritual needs of the church deemed by the pastors.

We had a great day at church. Pastor Carlo was gone on rest and being ministered to by his pastor. Today’s worship went well considering a guest worship leader sang with our band. I got to just play guitar and be led in worship. Words can’t express how awesome of a worship leader she is.

She DID throw us a monkey wrench. Our team has never played Our God and since it is such a famous song I decided to go with it. I had heard her lead it before at her church and knew we could pull it off. So we practiced it a few times and nailed. We saved It Is Well for the end of service and I played piano on it. Really enjoyed just being a musician today.

This series is turning into an awesome series on worship. You can listen to each podcast each week at XtremeCF.com.

He Is GOOD!

I get an amazing opportunity. I get to be worship pastor of a church part time and work with disabled people to help with job placement part time. This is an amazing opportunity to help lead folks in worship and to help lead folks in finding a job. I get to make a living helping others.

I have dreamed of this since I God found me wandering aimlessly as a musician trying to make my mark in this world as a rockstar.  Words can’t express how awesome it is to be able to do the things I’ve been able to do the last four months.

Today as I write this I am sitting at Panera Bread (hipster sandwich place) at a table with three other leaders from my church in Fayetteville, North Carolina, 600 miles away from home preparing to go to a leadership conference. It’s 9:30 in the morning and I get to sit here typing this after I have spent time looking through blog feeds and news feeds. I’m not trying to brag.

I’m blessed and this is my avenue to express.

But with the blessings come prices I have had to pay. These are high prices. Prices that I would have to consider if it were material objects I was purchasing.

Firstly, the price to be away from family. I miss my wife and son so much. I’m away from them for three days and can’t help but be reminded of their love and comfort when I see another wife or child. I need my wife and son in my life. Without them, I would be at a loss. Knowing that God is my foundation, my wife and son build the walls to the structure I call life. Without them the wind and rains of life would make me cold and miserable.

Secondly, I have traded a great paycheck for something that has no monetary value, helping mentally and physically disable folks prepare for the work force and sustain a job. I have placed a few clients in jobs now and when I let them go, it’s like tearing a part of me away from myself. I invest so much into my clients and then after 90 days of placement, they’re on their own. The paycheck I received from doing pest control does not compare to the spiritual and emotional fulfillment I receive from placing a client in a job. It’s tough paying the bills and we’ve had to cut a few things off to make it work, and that’s ok.

It’s called sacrifice for a reason. Sometimes, in order to make the vine bear fruit, it needs pruning. By pruning a secure job and nice paycheck has made me more sensitive to the demand of family and closeness of a wife and son. It has made me more of a pastor to those who need a pastor figure in their life.

Is life perfect? No! But man I sure am enjoying the blessing of God and the life it leads even if the Lord takes away. He is GOOD.

Marriage: A Calling or A Desire To Help

I’m not a marriage counselor. The only thing I know of marriage is the things I’ve learned the hard way, being married, and the things I’ve learned from reading and being in conversation with other married couples. I’ve held marriage small groups at my house four different times and have learned so much from others on what works and what doesn’t in our marriage. Is our marriage perfect? By no means. We have our ups and downs. We have our issues that we’re still trying to work out. But for sure, Carrie and I don’t have the answers to every question in marriage nor do we exemplify the perfect marriage.

I know I’ve blogged a bit on marriage here lately as well as posted lots of things on Facebook and twitter dealing with marriage, but most of that is to help my thoughts on marriage and help others where they may be having trouble. In the last few years living away from family and having a child and being presented with the position of Associate Pastor  at my church, the need to make my marriage work has become necessity making sure time management, devotion, romance, and dedication to my family has been imperative.

I’ve had quite a few folks come to me and say, “You seem to know what to say and how to say it when it comes to helping me and my marriage. Thanks for being there.”  I like to share thoughts of others and my own that seem to answer the questions about how dads can be better dads, moms can be better moms, husbands can be batter husbands and wives can be better wives. By wanting my marriage to be better and see where it can, I like helping others in the same situations.

Carrie and I will be married ten years this year. It’s had its ups and downs. I hope that we can make it forty more years. I’m sure there will be ups and downs. Because we don’t have all the answers but we do have the desire to work through the downs and celebrate the ups. To live in the little moments and love and respect one another, to die for her as she submits to my leadership, to be that image of Christ and the church, where struggle and worship takes place, to walk through life together holding hands and rock on the front porch when time comes to watch those we have raised up go though it themselves.

Marriage is the epitome of the unity of the triune God. I only hope mine can exemplify that. I hope yours can as well.

the Links

Marriage

Life

  • Get Off Your Butt - My pastor just has a way of putting things. He’s a great communicator. Great communicators takes something simple, tells you in a simple way and it somehow becomes profound.

Worship

A Worshiper’s Conference

Two years ago, I approached my pastor wanting to do a worshiper’s conference. Not a conference to teach how to lead worship nor be on the worship team. There are conferences already for that. They’re all over the place and lots of them each year. But as far as I know, there is no conference for those who are NOT part of the team on stage each Sunday morning. Some would ask isn’t that what Sunday mornings are for? I might agree with that but when someone comes intentionally to a special event to learn to be a worshiper then more is invested and more is gained.

My heart for this began two years ago and it has been a slow go getting it off the ground.

AND THAT’S OK.

I took a year not doing much on it and this year I was moved to continue working on it. However, it still won’t be going down this year. What will and is happening is under wise counsel, my pastor suggested to start by doing a month-long series at church to get the right vision for what we want in a conference.

Last Sunday, we started just this. I started the series off with the Three “R”s of Worship; Remember God and His word, Reflect His glory, Respond to His grace. Next week we will talk about Worship and Warfare, then we will talk about Worship As a Lifestyle, and lastly, the The Heart of Worship. I’m really excited about this, to finally get this vision moving in the right direction.

Vision statement: Creating worshipers, not just Christians.

Here’s a video I found to start last Sunday off. I can’t watch it without being moved.

Faith In Singing

I wrote this piece for our church blog last week. Hope you enjoy.

There is a song that is incredulously famous within the Christian culture. The name of this song is His Eye Is On The Sparrow. In this song the lyrics highly claim that the reason for our singing is because we are happy and free. Being a singer/songwriter for the better part of fifteen years, happy and free are not always the cases for our singing. Country music can be seen as the epitome of singing through sorrow.

Many are the songs of repentance and sorrow. We find in life that songs are sung in a multitude of emotions, with happiness being one of them. Granted it’s much harder to sing an up tempo song with an expression of lamentation and harder still to sing a song of slow tempo during a moment of excitement. Tempos carry the charge of the emotional state.

However singing can take on another dimension that we sometimes fail to see, the dimension of faith.  Faith comes when something naturally seems absurd to believe. Faith emerges when fear rears its ugly head. Faith makes itself known when the only thing we have to lean on is the unknown.

As stated in Hebrews 11:1 faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. How does this apply to our singing? Simple. When we sing to or about God, we are saying that we believe in what has yet to come and that we have confidence in what we hope for.

We believe through faith that there was a man named Jesus who was born from a virgin, performed many miracles, lived a perfect sinless life, died a horrible death on the cross as a sacrifice for all human kind, rose in three days, and ascended to Heaven to sit on the right hand side of God’s throne. It takes faith to believe in such things because we haven’t yet seen Jesus sitting on his thrown in heaven.

It takes faith to sing about them, too. How often do you find yourself singing about things you hope for or things you are sure will happen but have yet to see? Yet every Sunday morning across the world, Christians are singing songs of faith. It sounds strange to sing of things that are yet to come. That’s like writing a song about a son that I might have in the future, or a relationship that might happen in the future but I don’t know if it will happen.

Wait! I think Rebecca St. James already did that. It was called Wait For Me, and she got ridiculed for singing about future things like a husband. So you can see it seems odd to sing of those things we have yet to experience, but, yet, we still do. It seems weird to sing of the miracles worked by Jesus, but we do. It seems weird to sing of a Trinitarian God—three persons in one—that makes absolutely no sense if you think about it, but we do.

Singing about our faith perfects it. When we sing about our faith, our faith is strengthened.  Singing about our faith allows us to dive deeper into our beliefs, which helps us become more affectionate toward them.  When we sing about faith, our minds and our souls embody it.  God expects us to love him with all of our heart, soul, mind, and strength, so if we are not singing out of pure faith, we are not doing what God wants us to do.  The very prominence of loving God is with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. By utilizing faith in these areas of our being it ratifies the ability to sing to our creator.

If we continue to read Hebrews 11, we will see in verse six that the bible says it is impossible to please God without faith. So without faith, God is not pleased by our sacrifice of praise through singing. When we sing songs to God that are not rooted in faith, it then becomes lip service, and God says that lip service to him is like a noisy gong. (1 Corinthians 13:1)

He’s not interested in seeing his believers show up to church to only reverberate words from a screen that we have neither belief nor faith in. Would you like it if someone offered to you a song they wrote about you yet when they sang it, they had no emotion but a stale blank expression of song? I wouldn’t. American Idol judges wouldn’t either. Yo dawg. That doesn’t do anything for God!

It pleases God when we come to him with a broken and contrite heart full of praise and faith, because he sees the truth in our offering of song. He sees through the façade of mouthing words to get through a service. If there is no faith in our hearts to match the words that come from our mouths, my recommendation is to stop singing and pray about faith.

There was a man who had a demon possessed son who said to Jesus “Teacher, I brought You my son, possessed with a spirit which makes him mute; and whenever it seizes him, it slams him to the ground and he foams at the mouth, and grinds his teeth and stiffens out. But if You can do anything, take pity on us and help us!” And Jesus said to him, ” ‘If You can?’ All things are possible to him who believes.”

Look what the man says next.

“I do believe; help my unbelief.”

What did he mean by that? We all have levels of belief. But deep inside us we have a moment of unbelief. This man was crying out to God saying, I believe but there is a part of me that sees this as impossible. Help me!

Sometimes in our unbelief, we need to cry out and say I believe but it seems so difficult. Help me! In order to sing through faith we have to be willing to face this unbelief and allow God to enter and help us overcome.

Let’s wrap up. There are times it’s hard to believe. It’s hard to have faith. Ask God to help you in your unbelief and approach the throne of grace with confidence in faith and sing your heart out to God. It pleases Him this way.

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